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"A family residing in North London seeks an extraordinary and skilled educator to guide their youngest child on his initial journey to turning into an English gentleman."

Looking at this post, you might naturally skip the term "beginning" as just an expression.

However, it might be the most important part of this unique job advert, as it aims to recruit a tutor for a 12-month-old.

Many of submissions have since been submitted since the unidentified family published their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who needs to be "a uniquely qualified person".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has gained notice across the press, with several questioning why?

Forward-Thinking Method

A tutoring expert, head and founder of Tutors International, which is supporting the family in their hunt, stated that notwithstanding initial doubt, he found the plan "far sighted", and "progressive".

When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they understood the unconventional character of their demand, and how young their son is.

But, they explained that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their firstborn was five, and by that age "cultural bias had already taken hold".

But what did the family mean by "cultural bias"?

It's "everything", the expert responded. "The manner you eat, the manner you speak".

He explained the older sibling had absorbed "very nuanced, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural habits. The family told him they did not want the same situation to recur with their younger child.

The strategy: To engage a English tutor, who should speak with standard English accent, to shape the baby from day one.

Subtle Influence

"A great deal of the learning at the beginning here is somewhat absorbed naturally," explained Adam.

It's through this natural absorption that the family are hoping the child will acquire the British traits they aim to impart.

The consultant noted the tutor had to be someone who went to "prestigious academies – comparable categories of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor simply needs to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they don't even know they're doing, simply by nature," he added.

Money No Object

The family told Adam the selected educator should preferably also have familiarity of or passion in horse riding, alpine skiing, the arts and musical activities so as to influence the child in a wide range of interests.

Additionally though, he said the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "pony-riding and picking up an instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to accomplishment and open doors.

"For all the rights and wrongs of that, because it's certainly a social class indicator," he notes.

Yet, in spite of all this guidance in "UK identity", might the child pick up alleged cultural leaning from the multicultural family he resides with regardless?

"Yes", replied he. "They know this may not work, but they've simply adopted the view of, 'we should try and let's go as quickly as we can', because the expense of it is not a concern," he stated.

Impractical

There are some in the education sector who express these reservations.

Peter Cui, head and founder of an educational organization, who also offer individual instructors, stated that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not engineered."

The expert wrote that he had emigrated from Asia to the United Kingdom at the time of 7 years old, and had been educated knowing and practicing both cultures. He went on to learn at Cambridge University.

"The concept that a single person can act as a representation of UK identity, an individual who can possibly impart the characteristics of a British gentleman onto a infant child, strikes me as idealistic and unrealistic," he stated.

"Based on my background, employing a quintessentially British tutor from babyhood will will not instantly create the goal they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to live many of the experiences they desire for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, personal identity should not be dictated from the outside; it must be chosen, and it must be internally driven."

Buying Britishness

Of course, Britishness is something the expert thinks can be educated – and marketed.

"I think the situation that the world regards us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating